If the year didn’t turn out how you hoped

As this year comes to a close, many women feel a quiet pressure to make sense of it all. What went right.What went wrong.What should have changed by now. There’s often an unspoken belief that a new calendar should bring instant clarity–or that if we haven’t “figured things out” yet, we’ve somehow missed our moment. […]
When Challenges Seem Overwhelming

Do you ever feel overwhelmed? Do you ever wonder if there is really a point to life? Do you ever hear yourself being afraid of what may or may not happen? Do you ever think there is no way you are going to make it through your challenges? I get it. I’ve been there. I […]
Burdens vs Loads
The idea is that a load is the day-to-day challenges that occur quite naturally, ie., housework, schoolwork, parenting, connecting with people, what to eat for dinner, laundry, a date, being date-less, work, a flat tire… A burden is the heaviness we carry around because of the consequences of someone else’s choices, a traumatic event that […]