This Is What’s Draining You
It’s not what you think. Last week I wrote that effort isn’t the solution. Capacity is. And there’s something that quietly drains capacity faster than almost anything else. It’s not your schedule.It’s not your responsibilities.It’s not even the hard conversations. It’s self-blame. When something feels off, most women don’t pause. They turn on themselves. “I […]
Effort Isn’t the Solution. Capacity Is.
Most of us respond to struggle with effort. We try to communicate better.React better.Pray harder.Fix faster. And when nothing settles, we assume we need more discipline. But effort isn’t the solution. Capacity is. When your nervous system is already stretched, more effort just feels like pressure. You can push yourself to say the right words.You […]
The Christmas Gift No One Talks About (But Every Woman Needs)
In exactly one week, it will be Christmas Eve. This final stretch before Christmas carries a different kind of weight.Not the kind that can be solved with lists or plans but the kind that asks to be held. This year, one of the quiet gifts Christ gave me and helped me recognize was comfort. Not […]
