Before You Say Yes: The Hidden Pattern Behind People Pleasing

Have you ever noticed how quickly “yes” can come out of your mouth? Before you’ve looked at your calendar. Before you’ve prayed. Before you’ve even asked yourself whether it’s yours to carry. For years, I thought that was just my personality. I didn’t realize there was a moment between what happened around me and how […]

What If It Was Never Your Job?

For years, I believed it was my job to make other people okay with me. When I discovered the hidden pattern underneath that belief, everything began to change. What if carrying the relationship was never your responsibility in the first place?

What If the People You Love Don’t Need a Perfect Version of You This Summer?

Many women spend summer trying to become more impressive instead of more supported. I think many women quietly enter summer believing they need to create a meaningful experience for everyone else. The fun memories.The activities.The emotional atmosphere.The steady version of themselves. For mothers with children at home, that pressure can become especially intense this time […]