This Is What’s Draining You
It’s not what you think. Last week I wrote that effort isn’t the solution. Capacity is. And there’s something that quietly drains capacity faster than almost anything else. It’s not your schedule.It’s not your responsibilities.It’s not even the hard conversations. It’s self-blame. When something feels off, most women don’t pause. They turn on themselves. “I […]
Effort Isn’t the Solution. Capacity Is.
Most of us respond to struggle with effort. We try to communicate better.React better.Pray harder.Fix faster. And when nothing settles, we assume we need more discipline. But effort isn’t the solution. Capacity is. When your nervous system is already stretched, more effort just feels like pressure. You can push yourself to say the right words.You […]
